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Youth Football 'Motivational' Technique Divides New Canaan

Members of a team who didn't finish in first-place were encouraged by coaches to burn their trophies following a third-place finish, police say.

While the , the board of  are faced with the investigating what happened in the aftermath of 8th Grade Black teams' third place finish. 

The loss, after a five-year winning streak, resulted in an end-of-year party, which included a walk to , where they were invited to toss their trophies into a bonfire at the suggestion of their coaches, according to a report by the Advertiser.

The incident, which occurred on Nov. 19, was reported anonymously to on Nov. 30 and corroborated by a parent and player, who also requested anonymity, when they spoke with Advertiser, according to the paper.

The town Fields Committee was notified last week and committee and said,  “Clearly, this is wholly inappropriate conduct and frankly should never happen again," as reported by the Advertiser.

On has created sharp divisions among account-holders posting comments.

One reader identified as "" objected to the tossing out of non-first-place trophies as a motivational tool because it destroyed "any other recognition of their hard work this season since they failed to deliver a championship."

"Great adult leadership coaches keep up the great work and abuse/vandalism of town property!" the New Canaan Patch account-holder said. "Tremendous message sent none of these gentlemen should be allowed to coach again what a disgrace."

In reply, one "" said Saturday morning to "get off the high horses."

"what is the big deal?" robert said. "you never had a bonfire? leave the kids and coaches alone. if burning a 3rd place trophy is the worst thing to happen, look forward to a better performance next year."

sam December 11, 2011 at 12:23 am
Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in the winning, but in doing your absolute best.
chris June 4, 2012 at 02:41 pm
Too many participation trophies for kids these days...life isn't equal and it isn't fair...people are superior to others by way of gifts or repeated practice and effort. Life is hard.

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